Ask Nicki
I am a qualified Integral Practitioner Coach through the globally accredited Integral Africa Coaching Centre.
Hi, I’m Nicki and I’m a professional sex coach.
As a dedicated sex coach, Nicki is deeply committed to helping individuals and couples navigate the intricate landscape of intimacy and desire. With a background as an attorney specialising in personal injury law, she embarked on a transformative journey to pursue her true calling in the realm of human connection and sexuality.
Nicki’s journey has been marked by a fervent desire to empower others to embrace their sexuality, communicate openly, and cultivate fulfilling relationships. From leading dynamic workshops to offering personalised coaching sessions, she is honoured to guide her clients on transformative journeys toward greater intimacy, satisfaction and pleasure.
With a focus on topics such as bridging the orgasm gap, reigniting passion in long-term relationships, and how to be succsexfully satisfied, Nicki offers a holistic approach that prioritises compassion, empathy, and inclusivity. Her goal is to create a safe and nurturing space where individuals and couples can explore their desires and discover new pathways to connection and fulfilment.
Whether Nicki is working with corporate teams, leading workshops for individuals and couples, or providing one-on-one coaching sessions, she is dedicated to tailoring her approach to meet the unique needs and goals of each client. Through her engaging and compassionate guidance, Nicki strives to empower others to embrace their sexuality, deepen their connections, and experience the transformative power of authentic intimacy.
Skills
My Skills
My passion for new knowledge and cutting edge evidence-based techniques and practices, ensure I am always training and honing my skills. Building on my many years of training as a family therapist, sex therapist, couple and sex therapist, my current skill set brings me into the core of healing: intimacy trauma using sensorimotor psychotherapy and trauma informed skills, which include psychedelic assisted psychotherapy. I look forward to working with you.
Services
My Services
My undergraduate training as a clinical social worker taught me to see you, the person, contextually and intersectionally. This means I see you as an individual within relationship/s, connections, communities, cultures, countries and the broader world. Working with me allows all parts of you to be noticed, acknowledged and given voice.
About Me
I am a qualified Integral Practitioner Coach through the globally accredited Integral Africa Coaching Centre.
(www.thecoachingcentre.co.za/)
I’m a qualified attorney at law (BA, LLB, Wits) and founder of Malcolm Lyons and Brivik Incorporated. Over twenty years of practice as an attorney has taught me not only how to secure client confidence and confidentiality, but also how to foster an ongoing relationship built on mutual trust and a common goal.
I am a member of COMENSA (Coaches and Mentors of South Africa) and an affiliate member of SASHA (South African Sexual Health Association).
What my clietns say
“Nicki has a gift for making sensitive topics feel comfortable to discuss. Her expertise allowed my partner and me to break down barriers and rediscover our connection. Our relationship is better now than it ever was before.”
“Nicki’s insights and advice revitalised our relationship. We’ve learned to communicate better in the bedroom, leading to a deeper emotional connection and renewed love. We have a deeper connection than ever before and behave like teenagers – so much fun – Thank you Nicki”
“I was skeptical at first, but Ask Nicki’s guidance has been life-changing. She helped us bridge the gap and reignite the passion in our relationship.”
“Nicki’s guidance transformed our sexual communication. Our once awkward conversations have turned into open, passionate discussions. Our relationship is stronger than ever and we continue to work on things every day.”
